Featured Post

When Everyone Keeps Taking Slices of Your Cake

The Day Your Cake Stops Feeling Like a Celebration There’s a specific kind of exhaustion that comes from realizing your cake is always being cut — even when it’s not your birthday. You didn’t offer slices. You didn’t invite everyone. You didn’t say, “Help yourself.” Yet plates keep appearing. Forks keep clinking. Hands keep reaching. And the moment you react, that becomes the issue. Not the endless slicing. Not the ignored signals. The reaction. This isn’t about generosity. It’s about who feels entitled to the cake. Growing Up Learning to Share Before You’re Asked Some people don’t grow up learning how to protect their cake. They grow up learning how to share automatically. They learn early: don’t say no don’t make it awkward don’t ruin the mood So they cut the cake themselves. Even when they’re hungry. Even when the cake is small. Even when no one asked nicely. Sharing becomes muscle memory. Not a choice — a reflex. When Sharing Turns Into Expectation At first, people appreciate it. “...

Contact the Author – Clove

Guidelines for Reaching Out Through the Contact Form

If you'd like to reach out, you can do so through the contact form on this blog. It provides a simple, safe, and private way to share your message directly with me without exposing personal contact details.

Where to Find the Contact Form

The form is part of the blog’s layout and is generally found in the sidebar. Look for the section titled "Contact Form: Reach Out to the Author Privately". This is the only official way to contact me directly through the blog.

How to Use the Contact Form

Sending a message is easy and secure:

- Enter your name.

- Enter your email address so I can respond, if needed.

- Write your message in the box provided.

- Click “Send” to submit.

Your message will be delivered privately to my inbox and will not appear publicly on the blog.

Why This Form Is Used

This method allows for sincere, respectful communication without requiring public contact information. The form is built into Blogger, which means messages are sent securely through their platform. I do not collect, store, or share your contact details beyond what is needed to receive and respond to your message.

What You Can Contact Me About

- Personal reflections in response to my writing

- Thoughtful feedback or encouragement

- Creative collaboration or writing-related inquiries

- Brand or partnership requests that align with the tone of this blog

- Kind suggestions or questions related to the blog

Responsible Use of the Form

This space is built on mutual respect. Please use the form with sincerity and consideration. Messages that are irrelevant, promotional, or inappropriate may be disregarded.

Privacy and Conduct

All messages remain private between you and me. I do not share, display, or sell any information sent through the form. I ask that all communication be respectful and thoughtful.

Legal and Safety Notice

The contact form is provided as a respectful means of communication. Any form of misuse—such as repeated unwanted messages, inappropriate language, or communication that violates my dignity or personal rights—may be documented and reported to the appropriate legal authorities or judicial system of my country. Spamming, mass solicitation, or use of this form for any non-permitted purpose is strictly not allowed and may also be subject to legal response.

Final Note

Clove Thoughts is a personal and emotional space. If something resonates with you and you’d like to share, I welcome your message. Thank you for reaching out with care and kindness.

— Clove

Popular Posts

The Hidden Cost of Being Too Kind: When Caring Quietly Exhausts You

Too Tired to React: The Silent Burnout No One Talks About